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Do you see making a mistake as evidence of your uselessness?

Do you misinterpret facial expressions, words or actions from other people, and then lie awake all night overthinking and dissecting what you said, what they said, and beat yourself up for being so stupid?

A lack of self-confidence pulls you down from the bottom and weighs you down from the top and in between you are crushing all the emotions from mild self-doubt to all out fear of failure.

"Negative self-talk can have a huge impact on what you believe you can or cannot do, to the extent that it ends up dictating where you place yourself in the ‘pecking order’ of life."

SUE BLACKHURST

Hi, my name is Sue Blackhurst and I once felt just like you.

My mind would go into overdrive reinforcing all my self-doubt until I discovered ways to reframe what was happening around me, and once I mastered the skills I needed, I never felt threatened or intimidated by another person or situation again.

I have helped thousands of women around the world to stop listening to their inner critic and learn the skills and behaviours to deal with the people and situations that cause anxiety.

TEACH ME HOW

The 3 Key Steps to Finding Confidence and Resilience

In order to change your Behaviour, it's important to first change your Mindset, which starts with your Beliefs.

BELIEF

A belief is a thought that something is true based on our acceptance that it exists without proof or evidence.
The belief you have about your own ability shapes your perceptions and perspectives of who you are and what you are able to do ... without proof or evidence.

MINDSET

Your thoughts can instantly change what you think, feel and do.
"I won't be able to do it, so I won't even try" By understanding, challenging and building strategies to deal with your negative self-talk, you can decrease your stress and become more resilient to life's challenges.

BEHAVIOUR

In the same way that you'd never serve ice cream with Spaghetti bolognese, you will always meet people where you feel that you just don't mix.
Learning where you clash and where you compliment is the key to dealing with those awkward or intimidating people and situations.

I'D LOVE TO LEARN MORE

24+ YEARS OF PROVEN RESULTS

Over the past 24 years, I have developed a system to change the way you think about your ability to cope with intimidating people and uncomfortable situations that cause you anxiety.

I have helped women from all walks of life to feel motivated to live their best life, and I now want to teach you the skills to turn your fears into freedom.

Find out How I Stopped Feeling Like This ...

I was so far out of my comfort zone that I went into shock. I froze on the spot and had absolutely no idea what to say or do. I convinced myself that I just couldn't cope, and rather than face my fear, I panicked, burst into tears and ran out.

CHANGE MY MINDSET

I only heard the criticism and I would lie awake all night overthinking where I was going wrong. I was trying to be 'more like them', but I wasn't being me and I stopped liking myself. Negative comments kept running around my head.

BUILD MY RESILIENCE

Fearing the unknown, I began to fill in the gaps and predict what would happen and how I would be perceived by other people. I kept asking myself, what if I don't fit in and what if they are all better than me? I never felt good enough.

DEVELOP MY PEOPLE SKILLS

I was in a rut and couldn't see a way out. The more my life was being directed and dictated by people around me, the less able I became to think for myself. I was losing control of my life and doing nothing to change it. I felt so lost and alone.

STOP FEARING FAILURE

IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO CHANGE

Whatever beliefs and negative thoughts are hijacking your ability to enjoy the day and sleep at night, building your core confidence will give you the ability to deal with all the people and all the situations that cause you anxiety?

And guess what, just like any other skill, self confidence can be learned. You just need to know how and I can't wait to show you all my secrets.

YES ... SHOW ME HOW

DON'T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT ...

"I always lacked confidence and doubted whether I was good enough.

Working with Sue was honestly the best decision ever! I learned so much about my personality type and how to interact effectively with others. I have been able to conquer self-doubt and overcome my fear of failing. I have learned to stand tall and believe whole-heartedly in my ability to handle whatever comes my way.

Don't hesitate to do this, it will change your whole outlook in the best way possible! You will find your confidence for sure"

HELEN from Newcastle

"I was at a place in my life where my children had left home and, for the first time, had space and time for me, which to be honest was quite scary.

I don't work and didn’t know what I was able to do. I had lost the confidence to go out and live my life and I was slowly feeling invisible. The longer I pretended to be ok, the more vulnerable I felt.

Sue showed me how to face my fears and overcome the mental barriers in my mind. I now know who I am, and the best part is that I'm no longer scared about my future"

LOUISE from London

"Taking Sue's course was honestly one of the most liberating and empowering experiences of my life. I feel so different it's honestly hard to describe.

There are so many lovely exciting things I'm actively pursuing right now that I wouldn't have ever tried without her program.

I'll know I'll never lose this truly solid core self-belief. 'Paradigm shift' doesn't even begin to describe it, and aside from being an awesome trainer, she's just such a fabulous woman to know"

AMANDA from Washington DC

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How to Break the Destructive Cycle

of SELF DOUBT and turn NEGATIVE SELF TALK into Positive SELF BELIEF

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